“How many times do we have to talk about something that is upsetting us?” A beautiful friend asked me this morning.

“As many times as it takes before we are ready to change something in ourselves, and the situation.  We will then either move forward, or change direction completely.  It takes as many times as you need it to take, before the exact moment when you realizes, you have transformed.” I answered. She smiled at me, and I smiled back. It is a really good question.

Transformation requires lots of prep time, lots of waiting, thinking, pondering, deciding, comparing and option time.  It takes just the right amount of time for your own beautiful moment of self-alchemy.  You will not always recognizes your journey towards transformation, but you will one day look back and realize, “Yes, this is where I changed.”

Spread your wings, accept a hug, talk about something that upsets you one more time.  Any moment now you may realize you have sprouted wings, and are about to soar.

with light,

Kamia

*for further transformation musings visit: ‘Soul Evolution’ by Kamia Shepherd (Buy Now)