Vibrant spiritual energy is like a beacon of light that shines outwards and through a person. It is an attractive quality to people with sensitivity and those that are discovering their sensitivity. Like mirrors we are programmed as humans and etheric beings to reflect and magnify one another’s light.
In our western culture which does not always celebrate nor encourage a spiritual dialogue or a communication between individuals on first meeting one another, sometimes this attraction, this desire to magnify our own and one another’s light, can be misconstrued and stirred into a confusing combination of frustration and sexual longing.
The second chakra, located between the belly button and the pubis bone is referred to as the chakra of creative and sexual energy. Not only creativity in the sense of birthing another human if you are a woman, but creativity in the sense that from this wheel of light, our desires to manifest on all level; artistically, musical, personal expression and transformation or creative ecstatic celebration of the divine like flowers opening in spring.
When this chakra is balanced and healthy, the light that emanates out into the world helps the individual to manifest their dreams into reality, to birth each new version of themselves as they evolve through life, and to connect in an intimate way with anyone they choose to be physically intimate with. On the etheric plane, this intimacy goes beyond the physical bodies to activate and connect the kundalini energy that circulates upwards through all of the chakras. Love based unions can allow for a communion between all of the chakras that energizes and revitalizes the cells of the individuals bodies as well as celebrating a ‘union of spirit’.
To celebrate union with another, there must first be an opportunity for a ‘union of self’. Each of us carry both masculine and feminine energy. Light that is radiant with nurturing a dream, as well as light that is the impetus to act and make the dream manifest. The light that attracts us to another individual is often times a mirror for a level of self awareness, or realization that our own higher selves and present consciousness is developing. Many people, when they first begin to follow their personal soul path, will find they have an influx of ‘partners’ stepping eagerly forward. Some of these partner’s are in fact not necessarily the individuals ideal mate. Some of them may represent past karmic connections, current life challenges, and or fellow participants also beginning to explore their own flowering of consciousness.
To differentiate between what energy an individual is ‘offering’ to your current life path, consider taking time away from the individual and finding a place in nature or a sacred space inside, where one can sit in stillness and meditate. Visualize your own chakras as spinning wheels of light. Take deep breaths and allow that some of them may need time to spin and balance with the others. Ask that your angels, guides and higher self aid you in finding a healthy flow of light between all of your chakras.
Once you feel that you are in a place of inner ‘knowing’. Ask your body and spirit to give you clear messages on ways in which the ‘possible partner’ relates to you at this present time. Do you feel warm and positive messages radiating towards you heart chakra? Is there an opening of awareness, a light expansion at your crown chakra? Each of these sensations or images are important messages from your higher self to help differentiate the types of learning opportunities and lessons an individual is bringing or looking to receive, in your life.
A prayer that I have found useful is as follows:
“Dear God/dess, my higher self, Archangels and spirit guides, please help to balance, receive and transmit only the highest vibrational energy of divine love and light in my physical, emotional, spiritual and mental bodies.
Please Archangel Raphael, help me to heal on every level the imbalances that have blocked this free flow of divine light and vitality.
Please Archangel Jophiel help me to see the beauty within myself so that I my step forward to encourage the beauty within others in a healthy and balanced manner in all of my relationships.
Please God/dess, send me messages that I can clearly understand about the ways in which my relationship with this person can develop for the highest good of my life path, and their own souls evolution.
Archangel Michael, please give me the courage to communicate in a positive and loving manner with myself and this individual so that we may learn from one another as our authentic selves in positive relationship.
Thank you, Amen and Om.”
Many people will reconcile a desire to spiritually attune with another human, as soley sexual attraction. In healthy and balanced relationships, spirituality and sexuality will be beautifully combined. But in other relationships, it is possible to allow that teaching and learning from another human, about loving kindness, spiritual expansion, bravery and birth, all can occur without a sexual exchange of energy. Teaching and learning from one another about life, death, rebirth and expanding consciousness can be achieved through friendship, mentorship, loving kindness and introspection, and is an incredible gift we are all capable of sharing and receiving.
With respect for your journey, and all of the light you are creating in the world,
for an in depth Chakra balancing meditation or for attracting a Soul Mate relationship visit:
for free blogposts on healthy and healing relationships visit:
Healing Past Life Relationships for Present Life Wellness
Making Space for Love
Innocence and Relationship